Question:
My daughters ex is 100% disability for PTSD (he did not see combat). He is fighting her court order for child support. In the meantime he is getting extra money each month that is for the boys but keeps it. He has never paid a cent for their support. Can the military send that part directly to her and if so who does she contact?
Jim's Reply:
Yes, if she has a legit court order for child support or alimony and there is evidence he has fallen behind, she may ask the VA to apportion his benefits. Apportionment is a process similar to garnishment and she must accurately complete a form and return that to VA per the instructions you'll find through that link.
While that's in process she should be in constant touch with her state child support enforcement agency and the district attorney in the region where the children live. Often enough the DA will have access to resources to help persuade deadbeat parents to pay up. Deadbeat parents can have their drivers and other licenses taken from them but you have to be persistent to convince the state to help. Good luck.