Question:
I am an Army veteran, my ex-husband is an officer. Why is it ok for him to constantly treat me poorly, use my daughter as a pawn, and then laugh and say you can't do anything about it because I'm in the military. He forced me to stay in the IRR when I was pregnant because he didn't want to get in trouble since he was an officer and I was enlisted. The last 8 years has been a huge battle with me seeing my daughter or having my daughter.
Jim's Reply:
The divorce court is the only arena where the issues you cite can be sorted out. Once we're in front of the magistrate, we're all E-1s and equally liable to the court. If you don't take this to the courts, all you can accomplish is talk. Good luck.